"Teach them diligently unto thy children"

In the Book of Deuteronomy, when the Israelites are about to enter into the promised land, they are admonished over and over to keep the judgments, statutes and commandments of the Lord. They are informed about the blessings that await if they do and warned about the curses that inevitably follow if they don't. This passage is particularly well-known 

4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord:

5 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.

6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:

7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.

8 And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes.

9 And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates. (Deuteronomy 6)

The Savior quotes verse 5 when he answers the famous question about the greatest commandment. But I wanted to focus on verse 7 about teaching the children. The NRSV Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible comments on this verse: 

The inculcation of moral principles and wisdom in youth was practiced widely in the ancient Near East. In Egypt, teaching and instruction were used from at least 2500 BC up until the time of the Ptolemies (c. 300 BC). Rules of conduct and learning were prepared for sons. From moral issues to royal protocol, children were trained in the home or in the king’s palace. Order, truth and justice were important. In Mesopotamia, Sumerian literature includes the advice of a father to his son. Several famous works of a didactic nature come from Mesopotamia. Repetition by mouth, copying texts and strict discipline (the rod!) were the main pedagogical means of “impressing” a desired curriculum on a student or child. This was done both in the home and in any place of learning available. Covenantal conditions and stipulations were passed on so that following generations would know and pursue them diligently

This is not the first time I read about ancient Israelite customs and see how well the Book of Mormon fits into that cultural framework. Especially the bolded parts are easily recognized in several Book of Mormon passages. Here are some examples:

Lehi's teachings to his sons

This is perhaps the best example of Near Eastern fatherly inculcation in the Book of Mormon. There are too many examples to go through in detail, but despite mixed outcomes, Lehi is quite clear about his objectives. 

28 And now, my sons, I would that ye should look to the great Mediator, and hearken unto his great commandments; and be faithful unto his words, and choose eternal life, according to the will of his Holy Spirit;

29 And not choose eternal death, according to the will of the flesh and the evil which is therein, which giveth the spirit of the devil power to captivate, to bring you down to hell, that he may reign over you in his own kingdom.

30 I have spoken these few words unto you all, my sons, in the last days of my probation; and I have chosen the good part, according to the words of the prophet. And I have none other object save it be the everlasting welfare of your souls. Amen. (Nephi 1-4)

The way of life and the way of death is the essence of Deuteronomy and this is what Lehi lays out in this chapter. "I have none other object save it be the everlasting welfare of your souls" is really strong language. All of 2 Nephi 1-3 and some of chapter 4 is Lehi's "advice of a father to his son" with "covenantal conditions and stipulations...passed on so that the following generations would know and pursue them diligently"

5 But, said he, notwithstanding our afflictions, we have obtained a land of promise, a land which is choice above all other lands; a land which the Lord God hath covenanted with me should be a land for the inheritance of my seed. Yea, the Lord hath covenanted this land unto me, and to my children forever, and also all those who should be led out of other countries by the hand of the Lord. (2 Nephi 1)

3 Wherefore, after my father had made an end of speaking concerning the prophecies of Joseph, he called the children of Laman, his sons, and his daughters, and said unto them: Behold, my sons, and my daughters, who are the sons and the daughters of my firstborn, I would that ye should give ear unto my words.

4 For the Lord God hath said that: Inasmuch as ye shall keep my commandments ye shall prosper in the land; and inasmuch as ye will not keep my commandments ye shall be cut off from my presence.

5 But behold, my sons and my daughters, I cannot go down to my grave save I should leave a blessing upon you; for behold, I know that if ye are brought up in the way ye should go ye will not depart from it.

6 Wherefore, if ye are cursed, behold, I leave my blessing upon you, that the cursing may be taken from you and be answered upon the heads of your parents.

7 Wherefore, because of my blessing the Lord God will not suffer that ye shall perish; wherefore, he will be merciful unto you and unto your seed forever. (2 Nephi 4) 

We could go on but this sample is sufficient to illustrate the point. 

King Benjamin's teachings to his sons

This account is much briefer but sufficient to see the ancient Near Eastern cultural heritage

2 And it came to pass that he had three sons; and he called their names Mosiah, and Helorum, and Helaman. And he caused that they should be taught in all the language of his fathers, that thereby they might become men of understanding; and that they might know concerning the prophecies which had been spoken by the mouths of their fathers, which were delivered them by the hand of the Lord.

3 And he also taught them concerning the records which were engraven on the plates of brass, saying: My sons, I would that ye should remember that were it not for these plates, which contain these records and these commandments, we must have suffered in ignorance, even at this present time, not knowing the mysteries of God.

4 For it were not possible that our father, Lehi, could have remembered all these things, to have taught them to his children, except it were for the help of these plates; for he having been taught in the language of the Egyptians therefore he could read these engravings, and teach them to his children, that thereby they could teach them to their children, and so fulfilling the commandments of God, even down to this present time.

7 And now, my sons, I would that ye should remember to search them diligently, that ye may profit thereby; and I would that ye should keep the commandments of God, that ye may prosper in the land according to the promises which the Lord made unto our fathers.

8 And many more things did king Benjamin teach his sons, which are not written in this book.

Apparently, this account is very abbreviated, and King Benjamin taught his sons "many more things". In verse 4, King Benjamin seems to refer to Deuteronomy 6:7, probably among other things, where the commandment to teach the word of God to your children is given.

Alma-II to his sons

I am sure that all the righteous record keepers in the Book of Mormon had similar teaching sessions to their sons, even though not all have been recorded. But Mormon decided to include Alma's word to his sons and take them directly from his own record. Here we see the same pattern, especially with Helaman who is the oldest and the next record keeper.

13 O remember, remember, my son Helaman, how strict are the commandments of God. And he said: If ye will keep my commandments ye shall prosper in the land—but if ye keep not his commandments ye shall be cut off from his presence...

17 For he will fulfil all his promises which he shall make unto you, for he has fulfilled his promises which he has made unto our fathers...

20 Therefore I command you, my son Helaman, that ye be diligent in fulfilling all my words, and that ye be diligent in keeping the commandments of God as they are written....

35 O, remember, my son, and learn wisdom in thy youth; yea, learn in thy youth to keep the commandments of God. (Alma 37)

The bold parts are directly linked to the quoted description of the ancient Israelite practice of fathers teaching their sons.

Judgments, statutes and commandments

The Law of Moses was important for righteous Nephites, but they offered a unique perspective on it combined with faith in Jesus Christ.

24 And, notwithstanding we believe in Christ, we keep the law of Moses, and look forward with steadfastness unto Christ, until the law shall be fulfilled.

25 For, for this end was the law given; wherefore the law hath become dead unto us, and we are made alive in Christ because of our faith; yet we keep the law because of the commandments. (2 Nephi 25)

This post explains that the oft-repeated 'Book of Mormon proverb', is a reference to the Mosaic covenant. When a term is used as a key word or phrase to reference a longer text, it is called metalepsis. This is an appropriate description of "inasmuch as ye shall keep my commandments, ye shall prosper in the land". It invokes the entire Mosaic covenant. A related phrase that I have found is the "judgments, statutes and commandments" of God. This is also a metalepsis referring to the terms and conditions of the Mosaic covenant for the people of Israel. All that they are asked to do to become a "peculiar nation" (Deuteronomy 26:18) and God's chosen covenant people is laid out in the books of Exodus to Deuteronomy. It is summarized by his "judgments, statutes and commandments". For instance:

In that I command thee this day to love the Lord thy God, to walk in his ways, and to keep his commandments and his statutes and his judgments, that thou mayest live and multiply: and the Lord thy God shall bless thee in the land whither thou goest to possess it. (Deuteronomy 30:16)

The Nephite term, "prosper in the land" is a summary of "live and multiply" and "the Lord thy God shall bless thee in the land" and other covenant promises scattered around in the Torah, especially in Deuteronomy. But the "keep the commandments" part of the Book of Mormon proverb is also short for the commandments, statutes and judgments, even though all three are also mentioned at times in the Book of Mormon. The order of those three terms varies and sometimes only one or two of the three are used, but I don't know if that has significance. They are repeated multiple times in the Book of Deuteronomy, usually to summarize and refer to all the detailed instructions that Israel have received through Moses. Here are a couple more examples

Now these are the commandments, the statutes, and the judgments, which the Lord your God commanded to teach you, that ye might do them in the land whither ye go to possess it (Deuteronomy 6:1)

Therefore thou shalt love the Lord thy God, and keep his charge, and his statutes, and his judgments, and his commandments, alway. (Deuteronomy 11:1)

These are only a few examples but Deuteronomy is saturated with this language. These expressions are also used when explaining why Israel have lost wars and ultimately been taken captive by the Babylonians.

And ye shall know that I am the Lord: for ye have not walked in my statutes, neither executed my judgments, but have done after the manners of the heathen that are round about you. (Ezekiel 11:12)

In the Book of Mormon, this expression seems to be used to inform the reader that the broken off branch of the House of Israel in a promised land were keeping their part of the covenant. This is how Nephi puts it

10 And we did observe to keep the judgments, and the statutes, and the commandments of the Lord in all things, according to the law of Moses.

11 And the Lord was with us; and we did prosper exceedingly; for we did sow seed, and we did reap again in abundance. And we began to raise flocks, and herds, and animals of every kind. (2 Nephi 5)

Nephi clearly attributes their abundant reaping and increase of flocks to the fact that they kept the terms of the Mosaic covenant. Prospering in the land was the promise. They had kept their part and the Lord always keeps his. Another similar example

Nevertheless Helaman did fill the judgment-seat with justice and equity; yea, he did observe to keep the statutes, and the judgments, and the commandments of God; and he did do that which was right in the sight of God continually; and he did walk after the ways of his father, insomuch that he did prosper in the land. (Helaman 3:20)

At this point, several hundred years have passed since Lehi and his family left Jerusalem, but the Nephites obviously remember the covenant of their fathers, the covenant terms and the Lord's promises that are still in effect. It is also interesting to note that the terms and blessings of the Mosaic covenant applied on an individual level as well as collectively. "he [Helaman] did prosper in the land".

Several times, this expression is used about Lamanite converts. The Book of Mormon stresses that true conversion at the time before Christ included keeping the Law of Moses. This is how they became covenant people. But unlike the Deuteronomists of old, it also included looking forward to Christ and his redemption, like Nephi expressed in the first verse I quoted.

14 And they did also bury their weapons of war, according as their brethren had, and they began to be a righteous people; and they did walk in the ways of the Lord, and did observe to keep his commandments and his statutes.

15 Yea, and they did keep the law of Moses; for it was expedient that they should keep the law of Moses as yet, for it was not all fulfilled. But notwithstanding the law of Moses, they did look forward to the coming of Christ, considering that the law of Moses was a type of his coming, and believing that they must keep those outward performances until the time that he should be revealed unto them.

16 Now they did not suppose that salvation came by the law of Moses; but the law of Moses did serve to strengthen their faith in Christ; and thus they did retain a hope through faith, unto eternal salvation, relying upon the spirit of prophecy, which spake of those things to come. (Alma 25)

Like Nephi, they kept the law of Moses because of the commandments. Those were the covenant terms and source of their blessings. But it was also the pointer towards Christ, the ultimate source of blessings and prosperity, even "eternal salvation". 

The Shema and the covenant

Deuteronomy 6:4-5 are very well-known verses to Jews. It is a prayer that is often cited on various occasions, similar to the Lord's prayer in Matthew 6:9-13 for Christians. It is called "the Shema" after the first word of the prayer, which is translated into "hear"

4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord:

5 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.

When Christ was asked what is the greatest commandment, he quoted the Shema. 

I find it interesting how words can have slightly different meanings in different languages. For instance, the word "love" is typically translated into "elske" in my language, Norwegian. But it's not a 100% match. The Norwegian word is a bit more intimate and it would usually be strange or awkward to use it about a friend, for instance, whereas in English speaking countries, it is quite ok to love a friend. Learning the meaning of the original language of the scriptures can therefore be quite eye-opening, as they might also have slightly different meanings. So how would an ancient Israelite understand the word, ahava (אהבה), that has been translated into love in verse 5?

Just like the English word, it signifies a close emotional bond. But the English word is more related to feelings, while the Hebrew word is more related to action and commitment. Especially when there is talk about love between God and man in the Old Testament, it is an indication of a close covenant relationship based on commitment and obedience. The Book of Deuteronomy is full of covenant language and lays out the terms of the covenant between the God of Israel and his people. The Shema is the heart of this covenant. Moroni understood this when he quoted part of the Shema in Moroni 10:31-33

31 And awake, and arise from the dust, O Jerusalem; yea, and put on thy beautiful garments, O daughter of Zion; and strengthen thy stakes and enlarge thy borders forever, that thou mayest no more be confounded, that the covenants of the Eternal Father which he hath made unto thee, O house of Israel, may be fulfilled.
32 Yea, come unto Christ, and be perfected in him, and deny yourselves of all ungodliness; and if ye shall deny yourselves of all ungodliness, and love God with all your might, mind and strength, then is his grace sufficient for you, that by his grace ye may be perfect in Christ; and if by the grace of God ye are perfect in Christ, ye can in nowise deny the power of God.
33 And again, if ye by the grace of God are perfect in Christ, and deny not his power, then are ye sanctified in Christ by the grace of God, through the shedding of the blood of Christ, which is in the covenant of the Father unto the remission of your sins, that ye become holy, without spot.

Even though the Law of Moses was fulfilled, loving God with a "Hebrew" love is still an important part of the new and everlasting covenant.

Ahava comes from the Hebrew root, hav, which means to give. As stated on this website:

True ahava, true love, is more concerned about giving than receiving.  Being the center of someone's attention isn't love.  And love isn't about getting some feeling or fix.  Ahava is about giving devotion and time.  Giving is the vehicle of love. YHWH so loved the world that He GAVE His only Son.  Meaningful relationships have mutual giving.  Love may focus on receiving, but ahava is all about giving.  There is a difference.  Consider that the Hebrew word "ahava" is not an emotion but an action.  It is not something that happens "to you" but a condition that you create when you give.  You don't "fall" in love - you give love!